Movies like The Breakfast Club or The Perks of Being a Wallflower portray introverts as shy, geeky, reserved, and socially awkward people. Though that might be somewhat true, that is not all introverts have to offer. In fact, they’re incredibly amazing people—they just don’t show it to the whole wide world all the time. Here are 10 reasons why introverts are amazingly attractive, inside and out.
1. THINK YOUR HEAD OFF
Since they spend a lot of time inside their own heads, what they say will probably be on point most of the time. After all, they spend hours analyzing their thoughts, arguments, and ideas. When they speak out, they do it right.
2. INTIMATE CONNECTIONS
Introverts don’t just let people in easily: they take their time to let down their barriers and allow themselves to be vulnerable with someone new. If you’ve made it into an introvert’s inside world, you must be something special.
3. TALK TO ME
One of the best—and most useful—superpowers introverts possess is being great listeners. They will take the time not only to hear you out for as long as you need, but also to give you the piece of advice that’s right for you.
4. INTROVERTS WORK IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS
Introverts are always around just the right amount of time: you will notice them but don’t end up knowing a lot about them. A little mystery is always attractive; and they’re masters at that.
5. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED
Introverts tend to put up a sort of challenge for new people they meet. Since they won’t make friends with just anyone, they have their own tests to see if a person is worth entering their world—accepting the challenge is up to you.
As you already know, introverts don’t like to draw a lot of attention to themselves. They take good care of themselves but without bragging about anything they do. They’re really amazing, and all their good deeds come without the flash.
Introverts are probably the most generous people out there. They tend to embrace their altruist spirit and be the ones who offer for help when you need it the most: helping an elderly cross the street, bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick, offering to look after your kids.
8. GO FOR IT
Believe it or not, introverts are highly self-confident. They know themselves so well, they all probably know exactly what they want from life—and they definitely know how to go for it.
9. IN GOOD COMPANY
We’ve mentioned introverts like to stay away from the spotlight. That also means they love to relax and enjoy the time they spend with others in an easy-going type of way, so it’s really easy to spend time around them.
10. UNWAVERING LOYALTY
For introverts, any type of relationship requires an investment of their precious time. If they choose you, there’s no hidden agenda: they are not trying to get a promotion or a huge favor. They will be entirely devoted to you and, thus, will be completely loyal to you. Not too shabby if you ask me!